Sunday, September 6, 2009

My Stay-At-Home Pals

Hyrum has done really well with the boys being at school. He is such a stinker and so cute!!! I told Michael the other day that I don't know if any of our boys can make me laugh as much as Hyrum does (they all make me laugh and bring an equal amount of joy to my life--but Hyrum is hilarious). That being said, I don't know if any of our boys can frustrate me as much as he does too. He really knows how to push my buttons. He loves getting in to things and is very, very strong willed. He knows exactly what he wants, and if he doesn't get it, well, you'd better watch out. Today he had to sit in time out during Sacrament meeting on two different occasions.  He is still learning not to hit me and Thobe and the meaning of the word "No, Hyrum." He is also very polite. After he hits someone, he'll often go up to them and kiss them where he hit them and say, "I'm sorry, (insert the person's name)." He is very good at saying, "Thank you" and "Your Welcome." We have a lot of people comment on how polite he is. I guess it's his way of masking his mischievousness. The other thing that always, well almost always, gets him out of trouble is when he says, "Mom, I lub you," in his most matter of fact voice. That is almost always followed by a very sweet, slobbery kiss.


He always wants to know how thing work and is constantly studying things. He asks, "Why?" constantly and is always trying to take things apart. We always have pieces of flashlights, pens, and our laundry hamper scattered throughout our house. Hyrum recognizes most numbers up to 10, although all colors are blue and all letters are E. He absolutely adores Jacob. He always wants to know where Jacob is if he's not with me. When Michael holds Jacob, Hyrum tells Michael, "No, it's Mommy's." When I hold Jacob though, Hyrum tells me that Jacob is his Jacob and then he says, "I kiss it? I kiss the baby Jacob?" He is very, very protective of his baby brother and is constantly making sure that he his bottle (his pacifier).

My two favorite things about Hyrum are his sense of humor and his love for music. Hyrum says the funniest things. One night when Eric and Michelle were in town, we left the three older boys with Michelle and Eric's kids. Hyrum and Elijah are best pals (they look a lot alike too). Anyway, Elijah and Charity were asking Hyrum what his name is, and Hyrum told them that his name is Hamburger, Grandpa Hamburger to be exact. I have no idea where he got that from, but now, whenever you ask Hyrum what his name is, he'll tell you it's Hamburger. He even tells complete strangers that his name is Grandpa Hamburger. He loves to put his clothes on in silly ways and make up silly names for things. He talks really, really well and knows how to manipulate his words to make things even more funny. He loves it when I tickle his back or rub lotion on his arms and legs. Whenever I do any one of those things, he says, "Oooo, I like it." He'll often tickle my arm and say, "Ahhh, you like it, the tickles, Mom? You like the tickles?" He makes me laugh.

As I mentioned he also loves to sing. I'll often hear him working on something singing, "I Am a Child of God," "Twinkle Twinkle Little Star," "C is for Cookie" or any number of songs. I sing songs with the kids in the nursery, and Hyrum gets so happy to sing when I come in. He is constantly telling us which songs we should sing next. I love that he'll just walk around the house singing his little heart out.

Jacob, my other little stay-at-home buddy, is such a terrific baby. Michael and I were talking today how he has never been inconsolable. It seems like every time he sees me, his eyes light up and he gets a huge smile on his face. Often when we're staring at him, he'll stick his tongue out at me because he wants to play our tongue game where I stick out my tongue and then he sticks his out. He loves to coo at me and Michael. He loves to copy the sounds we make. He even will try to copy the sounds of "Hola." He smiles so much and often lets out one little giggle. He's just so amazing. I do think that he's also our biggest baby that we've had. When I took him to his two month appointment he weighed a whopping 13 pounds 8 oz and was 24 inches long. That put him in the 95th percentile for his weight and the 85th percentile for his length. He sleeps well, he eats well, and he poops well. He's snuggly and cute and so much fun. I'm a rested, happy Momma. I feel so bless to have a baby as good as Jacob is. I actually just feel so blessed to have all four of my boys. They're really amazing.
I just wanted to also include a picture of Jacob each month to chart his growth. It's pretty amazing to see how much he's grown.
 
Wee Little Jacob at 1 Week

 
Bigger Jacob at 1 Month

 
Momma's Big Two Month Old

The Start of School

 
Summer went by too quickly for me. It's amazing how having a baby and a couple road trips can really zap a summer. All in all, I felt like this was a really great break and am sad to see it end. I really love having the boys home with me, and although I probably get after them more than I should, I love those boys to pieces and hate to have them away from home. Nonetheless, I also feel that they need socialization and an education, so for our family, I feel like the local public school meets those needs right now for them, at least for the most part. So on August 31, 2009, I got Alden & Thobe up to get ready for school. Alden was actually getting on the bus, and Thobe practiced for Wednesday (he had to wait a couple days--Kindergarten started a couple days later). 

Alden started second grade this year. I'm so excited about his teacher, Mrs. Hempleman. She has been teaching for a long time and has all sorts of innovative ideas that she tries. I'm really, really impressed with her, and Alden thinks she's great! I like that she does a lot of projects as well as expects her students to improve daily. Alden is also thrilled that his best friend Jack is in his class and sits right in front of him. I think this will be a great motivator for Alden. I'm really excited about this. It's hard to believe that my little Alden is a second grader now. It's so weird when your child is doing the things that you remember doing yourself. I'm so proud of Alden and really appreciate the good boy that he tries to be. He's a great big brother and a really, really good kid. I'm so excited for him this year.

Incredibly, my little Thobe starts Kindergarten this year. It's so hard to believe that he's old enough to go. Thobe is incredibly smart. He knows things that amaze me that I have no idea how he knows them. He's a good reader when he wants to be and loves doing math. We have had some potty training issues with Thobe, and frustratingly, a few days before school started, he started having accidents again. I figured it was probably anxiety issues, but I didn't know. I called his teacher who indicated that they would just work with us and figure something out. I was very worried about it, so worried that I didn't even think that my little Thobe was starting kindergarten. It was funny, the night before I put him on the bus, Michael and I were reading Scriptures, and it hit me, "Thobe starts school tomorrow." My heart suddenly broke in two. I thought about all the things that I wished I had done better with him. I wished that I wouldn't have to send him because I knew that although a new and exciting chapter was beginning in his life, that another chapter was closing--the chapter that had me as the center of his universe. I mourned the fact that I had spent so much time worrying about his bathroom issues that I didn't savor those last moments of him just being a little boy. Fortunately, that next morning we were in such a rush---we were running behind anyway and then the bus came early, that I didn't have time to cry before he left. I watched him get on that big yellow bus with his brother, who was very excited to show his little brother the ropes, and then went in the house. I was feeling a sad but knew that things would be okay. Then Michael said, "Wow. I can't believe Thobe's in Kindergarten. I remember holding that little guy in my arms when he was brand new..." I lost it at that point. I think part of the reason it's hard is because he didn't get Mrs. Curl, Alden's Kindergarten teacher. I don't know how things will be with Mr. Hillery, Thobe's kindergarten teacher, but I hope that it will be fine. Mr. Hillery has expressed some frustration to me about Thobe, which concerns me somewhat, but I am going to work really hard to make Thobe's kindergarten experience as good as Alden's was. I hope it will be!!!
Anyway, school is back in session. I pray that God will bless my boys with what they need as they continue their quest to manhood.

 
 

Friday, September 4, 2009

Our Summer in a Nutshell

We have had an incredible summer!!! I am so sad that it is almost over and even sadder that I have not written down all the exciting things that have happened since the birth of Jacob. I am still trying to figure out the balance of having four kids. It seems like I'm later than usual to everything that I go to, and it seems like I lose it more often than I care to admit; however, I'm starting to get it--obviously, I'm able to blog for a minute or two right now--right?

Anyway, our summer has been great. After Jacob was born, my mom stayed with us for three wonderful, yet very short, weeks. She was amazing. I had no idea how much she did, until she left. Not only did she keep my house spick and span, made gormet meals for us, and stayed on top of my laundry mountain, but she also played with the kids, prevented melt downs (the kids' meltdowns and my own), and most importantly, kept Hyrum out of trouble. When she left, I was quickly reminded that I am not half the mom that she is. I have the most amazing mom in the whole world, and even though she lives far away from me, I don't know what in the world I would ever do without her. I love her so much and am convinced that those three weeks are the reason that I'm feeling as well as I am today. Whenever I start feeling overwhelmed, all I need to do is call her or think of the advise she gave me just before she left. She told me that now that she is older (she is only 54 so I'd hardly call her older) she has realized that most things that get us frustrated or overwhelmed really don't matter that much. I know that, but for some reason, when she said it, it stuck with me. Whenever I find the brand new foundation that I just bought smeared all over my walls and mirror or realize that I only got 1 of the 1000 things that I wanted to get done in a day done, I have really been trying to step back and think, "It doesn't really matter. The most important thing that I can do is be the kind of mom that my mom is to me." I hope that someday I can.

After my mom left, life got really crazy. It seems like we were always going somewhere. The week after she left, the boys had Safety City, a fun week of learning about how to protect themselves. Little did I know the night before Safety City, Thobe asked Michael if bad guys were real. To him, bad guys were make believe until the day before Safety City. Imagine how traumatizing it must have been for the poor boy when he went to a day camp where the focus of the camp was to teach them how to fight off bad guys--needless to say, Alden had a great week learning how to fight bad guys and Thobe stayed home with me and the two younger boys. He did learn how to buckle his seat belt that week, which made our summer travels a lot easier.


On July 26, Michael's Grandma, Virginia Wooster (we call her GG), turned 90 years old. We had her birthday celebration on July 25. Michael's grandma is very special to us. You would never guess that she's 90 with all her energy. We really loved being able to spend time with her and Michael's grandpa and family. Michael's sister, Michelle, and her family came out for the celebration. It was really wonderful to spend time with them. The boys feel like they're in heaven when they get to spend time with their cousins. We spent most of the following week with them and even took a trip down to Kentucky for Michael's cousin's son's wedding.











The following Thursday, August 6, right after I taught my class, we loaded in our van and headed out to Utah. We had a wonderful trip! I can't believe what good travelers my boys are. Michael and I feel really blessed. My dad often called to see where we were and kept telling me that he couldn't imagine being in the car that long. In all honesty, I think we all kind of enjoy it. The boys can eat whatever they want and watch movies all day (although we had a rule that before they could watch movies that Alden had to do a math worksheet and Thobe had to review sight words). Michael and I enjoy just talking in the car, and this time, he was able to use his Blackberry so that we could listen to Pandora (an on-line radio station) and play on Facebook. My favorite thing about road trips is that it reminds me of when Michael and I were dating and took several cross country trips. We still have to pay each other a toll when we cross into a new state.


We had a wonderful time out in Utah. I was able to meet my two newest twin nieces. It was so fun to be able to hold them and play with them. They are beautiful babies!!! I love them so much! It was also fun seeing all nieces and nephews and my sisters, brother, their spouses. We did a lot of fun things while we were in Enterprise. Michael and I celebrated our 10th Wedding Anniversary on the 10th of August. We went to Wingers, one of Michael's favorite restaurants with Doug, Diane, Emily, and Laura, and then to the Shakespearean Festival with Doug and Diane and saw "As You Like It." I love seeing plays in the outdoor Shakespearean theater that they have there in Cedar City, and it was a lot of fun walking around the campus where I spent my freshman year of college. Later in the week, Michael and I went to the temple in St. George where we were married too. I love going back there and remembering where Michael and I gave ourselves to each other for eternity. I loved that. We also got our family pictures taken and had a picnic at Pine Valley, a beautiful mountain community where we went camping a time or two when I was little. When we got to the little town, there was a deer running through town and my mom said, "Oh there's Bambi." Thobe thought for a minute and then said to my mom, "How did Bambi get out if his movie?" 




On August 16, Michael gave Jacob a name and a blessing at my parents' house. Michael's sister and brother-in-law came down from Pleasant Grove with their 7 kids, my Uncle Kendall and Aunt Marlene drove down from Northern Utah too. We also had my uncles and aunts and cousins who live in or near Enterprise, my friend Catherine, and of course all my siblings were there with their families. Overall, we had over 70 people attend. It was really a wonderful feeling to be with all these people who love us that we don't get to see nearly as often as we would like.














That day, Michael went back up to Northern Utah with Michelle's family to attend Education Week at BYU and the boys and I stayed in Enterprise. Michael loved Education Week, and the boys and I loved being able to spend a little more time at Grandma's. On Monday we went and visited my grandparents' graves, stopped and took pictures of the house I lived in until I was three, and then went and rode horses at my Uncle Ronald's house. The boys loved that!!! Thobe told my Uncle Ronald, "This is so fun it TICKLES!" The next day, we headed over to Hurricane and spent the evening and the next day with Diane and her family. The main thing Alden wanted to do when we went to Utah was to see Davin's room, so he was really happy when we went there. From there we went up to Northern Utah, spent a couple days at Michelle's and then headed back home. We feel like God watched over and protected us and feel so blessed with the family that he's given us. What a great trip we had!

Between all our travels we stayed busy with learning time each day, chores, and lots of playing. Alden and Thobe got to go to basketball camp at University of Toledo with Toledo Rockets basketball players. They even got to see an old jeep like their Great Grandpa Wooster (Geful) had. The boys also finished up baseball and t-ball, and Alden started soccer. I also taught my class at Rhodes State College. I really like that I can teach it on-line because I can still have some outside enrichment and stay home with the kids. I really love being a mom and am so grateful for the wonderful kids that I have.